Self-Worth

Photo Credits: Lampara Studio

In a brief conversation, a man asked a woman he was pursuing the question: 

'What kind of man are you looking for?' 

She sat quietly for a moment before looking him in the eye & asking, 

'Do you really want to know?' 

Reluctantly, he said, 'Yes'. 

She began to expound, 

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As a woman in this day & age, I am in a position to ask a man what can you do for me that I can't do for myself? I pay my own bills. I take care of my household without the help of any man... or woman for that matter. I am in the position to ask, 'What can you bring to the table?' 

The man looked at her. Clearly he thought that she was referring to money. She quickly corrected his thought & stated, 'I am not referring to money. I need something more. I need a man who is striving for excellence in every aspect of life. 

He sat back in his chair, folded his arms, & asked her to explain. 

She said, 'I need someone who is striving for excellence mentally because I need conversation & mental stimulation. I don't need a simple-minded man. I need someone who is striving for excellence spiritually because I don't need to be unequally yoked...believers mixed with unbelievers is a recipe for disaster. I need a man who is striving for excellence financially because I don't need a financial burden. I need someone who is sensitive enough to understand what I go through as a woman, but strong enough to keep me grounded. I need someone who has integrity in dealing with relationships. Lies and game-playing are not my idea of a strong man. I need a man who is family-oriented. One who can be the leader, priest and provider to the lives entrusted to him by God. I need someone whom I can respect. In order to be submissive, I must respect him. I cannot be submissive to a man who isn't taking care of his business. I have no problem being submissive...he just has to be worthy. And by the way, I am not looking for him...He will find me. He will recognize himself in me. Hey may not be able to explain the connection, but he will always be drawn to me. God made woman to be a help-mate for man. I can't help a man if he can't help himself. 

When she finished her spill, she looked at him. 

He sat there with a puzzled look on his face. 

He said, 'You are asking a lot. 

She replied, "I'm worth a lot". Send this to every woman who's worth a lot.... and every man who has the brains to understand!!

Telesfora: Another Affordable Place to Stay in El Nido

It was another commissioned work for El Nido. I am about to cover a wedding event that will be taking place at the Big Lagoon. 

Left Puerto at around 6 in the evening and arrived El Nido by almost 12 midnight. Good thing there are tricycles available at the terminal at that time of the night. I asked to driver to bring me to Telesfora Inn, and he brought me at this place where new buildings/units are being constructed (of different Inn). 

Here's the reception area/lounge/restaurant. Fronting the beach area. Showcasing wonderful sunsets every afternoon..

 Isn't it just lovely!

With all the stuffs I brought, the driver is kind enough to help me carry all my things as we walked through the passage given to us going to the place where I am about to stay.

Stayed there for 2nights and 2 days. Very friendly staff. 

They served meals through out the day. But breakfast comes free with the accommodation. 

Small room but will definitely be enough for a resting place. 

Down side is that it is 15 to 20meters from the highway. But it has a very beautiful sunset beach view.

Reading Guitar Music

It is never too late or too early to learn how to read guitar music. Many guitarist start off by teaching themselves guitar music after studying a piece of music on the radio or on a CD. This is a great starting point and will allow you to understand different notes and cords and the 12th fret.

Basic Elements

On a guitar, the tab staff has 6 horizontal lines. Each one of these horizontal lines represents a string on the instrument. The line on the bottom of the staff is the lowest “E” string on the guitar. The next line up from the bottom line represents the “A” string and so on. These are the basic elements when you learn how to read guitar music.

Chords

When your guitar tab displays numbers stacked vertically in a series, this is an indication to play these notes at the same time. When the guitar tab displays numbers in a series gradually on an incline, this is indicating these notes should be played one at a time. These are the first things you should know when you learn how to read guitar music.

Rhythmic notation

Rhythmic notation is how the songs rhythm should be heard when played. When you first learn how to read guitar music you should try songs you can access on a CD or radio so you can hear the rhythm before you commence learning the chords. Hearing the rhythm will make learning much easier.

A Major chord

An A major chord is the first chord you will learn to play and the first chord you will see when you learn how to read guitar music. An A major chord contains only 3 different notes. No more then 3 notes are used in an A major chord and these can generally be repeated more then once.

Discipline

The key when you learn how to read guitar music is discipline. Learning good techniques and having an excellent teacher will ensure you get the most out of your lessons. Once you have learned the basics of guitar music, you will find it easier to progress onto advanced guitar music.

Writing guitar music

When you learn how to read guitar music it is important to watch how the music is written. Take notice of the use of the chords in different sections of the music and take note of how easy the chords flow. When you become more advanced and start to write your own guitar music, these techniques will help you.

Noki Nocs Savory House: Yummiest Halo-Halo in Town

They have the creamiest and yummiest (at least for me) halo-halo in town.

This place served authentic Filipino dishes. Really love their kare-kare also.


Down side is that it is a tight place and can only accommodate 30 or less people at a time...

El Nido: Indeed a PARADISE!

Last Holy Week, we were able to visit El Nido with the family (Ramilo side).

Was able to enjoy the place, despite being frustrated and worried about my camera being soaked with sea water.

We stayed at a camp where we paid 250/night (cheap place really) with aircon rooms, kitchen and private bath, 

First day we had the tour, rented the boat for 5,000.00 and we toured on 4 islands that day, Small Lagoon, Big Lagoon,  Secret Lagoon and the 7 Commandos. 

Will definitely go back to this place with my first born!

The next day, we went traveled almost an hour to reach this so virgin beach called Nacpan! The place was so relaxing to stay! You'll enjoy the nice view of the virgin beach, plus the friendly smiling faces of all the tourists, locals and international!

Long white beach, blue crystal clear waters. Photos as proof below!

My daughter with her Nanny. 

Long white beach/shore of Nacpan Beach

Crystal Clear Sea Water!

See the blue waters at the background! So heavenly!

Little Moirah and Nanny Nene, enjoying the water splashes!

The famban!