Rules To Transform A Long Distance Love Into A Normal Relationship

Let's suppose that you are meeting someone online 

and that person seem to be the match of your life,

 but is living far away from you. Does it worth 

to spend your time in a long distance 

relationship with this person? 

What if this person is really your soul mate?

You may be surprised how much a relationship can 

grow if you work at it. If you know and apply 

some simple rules, your relationship can turn out 

to be one of the most successful and happy 

relationships that ever existed.

Distance, combined with phone calls and writing, 

electronically or through regular mail, can 

foster an enviable intimacy which results from 

learning about another's qualities, values and 

ways of thinking, sensitivities, dreams, and 

aspirations. This type of intimacy can make your 

coming together much more special.

And, as if relationships weren't complicated 

enough, having them across a long distance is 

extremely challenging. Just read the following 

rules and try to keep them in mind and apply them:

1. The quality of a relationship is more likely 

to increase if both people develop the ability to 

share feelings openly with each other. Do not be 

afraid to tell your partner what you really need 

and want from him or her, he or she deserves to 

know the truth and judge whether they can give it 

to you.

2. Make the relationship a high priority. Avoid 

canceling reunions or putting off a phone call.

3. Keep in touch daily. If large phone bills are 

a concern, send e-mail, letters, cards and even 

faxes. And when you do make contact, don't just 

stick to love talk, but keep each other informed 

on the day-to-day aspects of your lives. This way 

each of you is aware of how the other is thinking,

 feeling and developing.  Late-night talks and 

thoughtful letters can convey a lot of what is 

most important in the long-term: your goals, 

values and dreams.

4. Be prepared to be flexible. Tell your partner 

of how much you think about and love him or her 

and you will score some important points. Making 

them miss you more and you’ll fill them with the 

constant urge to see you. But don't be possessive.

  Being paranoid and accusing will only grow 

doubts, insecurity and tension between you and 

none of those will help the relationship develop 

successfully.

If your partner truly wants to be with you, then 

they would not want to wait forever to have you 

next to her or him. As long as you both trust 

each other, inform one another of your personal 

lives, keep in touch, your relationship can turn 

out into a happy normal relationship. 

Ultimately, a fabulous relationship is your goal -

 right?

Ways to Show Your Love to Your Partner

There are many ways to express love to your partner other than quoting the actual words "I Love You." Usually the fire in relationships dies down after a while and the feeling of your heart pounding with the excitement of being with your significant other is not felt nearly as often, or even at all. 

So, how do we get back that love, passion and warm feeling that wraps around us and penetrate our thoughts in the beginning of a relationship? 

Many say actions speak louder than words so below I have listed 5 secrets of seduction to help you show your partner how much you truly love them: 

1. Flirt 

This is a light-hearted seduction with the intent of conveying love! Why not send a sexy text message or email while you are at work? This reminds the other person that you are thinking about him or her. It also increases the intensity of love so that you actually look forward to seeing each other when you return home from work. 

2. Candles 

According to Feng Shui, the seduction candle is red and the ingredients are musk, patchouli, pine, cedar and juniper. This secret of seduction can put back the romance in your relationships. Why not fill your room with scented candles and turn off the lights just to relax in each others arms? The extra effort goes a very long way! 

3. Food 

It is said that "the way to a man's heart is through his stomach," however this is also thought to be the secret of successful seduction of women too. Show your love by setting up a surprise dinner for two. Add flowers, soft music and incense to create a seductive love nest. Aphrodisiac foods such as oysters, chili, chocolate, figs, honey and walnuts are said to aid in the stimulation of your loved ones hormones. 

4. Love Letters and Poems 

Why not leave a love note for your loved one? This can be posted in the bathroom or kitchen before you leave to work. You could also leave a nice love poem under the pillow so that your partner finds this at night before bedtime or first thing in the morning. Or send a hand written love letter to their work address. This will stir up the feeling of love in the privacy of your bedroom as well as in your relationship. Inspiration can be taken from music or love poem books. 

5. Get Away 

There can be a lot of distractions in your relationship such as work or children. There are many short vacations available for the weekend or just for a day. You may arrange a trip to the Health Spa or a Hotel so that you are in a different environment than usual where you can both relax and concentrate on each other.

Using the five techniques above to show your significant other just how much you truly love them will certainly spice up your love life, strengthen your relationship, and keep you and your partner happy for years to come!

Take the Chance with Vita-E

It’s the New Year and as many of us see it, this is a chance to do something different, start anew and fresh. As for your something new this 2016, consider focusing on your skin health this year. Yes, you might have been doing this for quite some time now, keeping your appearance always in check, but do you really tick off all the boxes on your skin check list? This includes having a healthy glow, a radiant appearance and having the proper nourishment that the skin really needs that you can easily get from Vitamin E. Well, now’s your chance to do this all at once. 

Make this New Year a great opportunity, take this chance with the help of Vita-E, Vita-E contains 400 IU of vitamin E, an antioxidant that effectively protects the cells against free radicals and gives our skin a beautiful, youthful and effortless glow. Vita-E works from the inside making you feel AND look great. Not only it’s essential in maintaining the functions of our heart, blood vessels, and nervous system, Vita-E also gives the immune system a boost. Take care of what’s beneath and flaunt that effortless beauty with Vita-E. Go E for effortless beauty with Vita-E!

Vita-E is recommended to be taken one capsule per day. Vita-E is SRP P14.00 per soft gel capsule, available at Mercury Drug and all other leading drugstores nationwide.  If symptoms persist consult your doctor.            

Are You Being Disrespected By Your Mate?

There is a trap that many of us fall into because for the most part girls are socialized to be sweet, accommodating, passive, well-mannered etc. When we grow up and get into relationships, many of us don't really know what to do in response to disrespect.

     It's a little like we're frozen. Shocked. Disappointed. Now What? Well, there is a % of women who will not put up with any form of disrespect in their relationships. One incident and they bail. Probably a good idea.

     But then there is the rest of us - who either get temporarily outraged or upset, but like a bitter pill - we swallow it and move on. This is NOT a good idea.

     No matter how many partners you may meet in your lifetime, there should always be at least one requirement - that you are treated with respect from day one until the end.

Look for areas of respect when...

1. You are intimate. He should respect your likes and dislikes.

2.You are talking to each other. He shouldn't speak to you like an angry dad or like you're an idiot.

3. You are arguing. Even in the heat of battle, you shouldn't be disrespected. If it gets that heated - someone should walk away.

4. He is around your friends and family. If he doesn't treat your friends/family with respect, then he doesn't respect you. They are an extension of you.

5. You are ending it. Even if the relationship is over and there are hurt feelings - he should have enough respect for what you did share to end it or accept the end with class.

Quick Tip: You teach others the amount of respect they will pay you. Even your worst enemy will respect you if you demand it. Demand what you are worth everyday.

Reconnecting

It's the time of the year. Having the family gather around the dining table.

While others were having fun while drinking beer, I was too busy talking to a friend over FB Messenger.. 

It's been quite a while..