Sunday, February 14, 2016

Rules To Transform A Long Distance Love Into A Normal Relationship

Let's suppose that you are meeting someone online 
and that person seem to be the match of your life,
 but is living far away from you. Does it worth 
to spend your time in a long distance 
relationship with this person? 

What if this person is really your soul mate?

You may be surprised how much a relationship can 
grow if you work at it. If you know and apply 
some simple rules, your relationship can turn out 
to be one of the most successful and happy 
relationships that ever existed.

Distance, combined with phone calls and writing, 
electronically or through regular mail, can 
foster an enviable intimacy which results from 
learning about another's qualities, values and 
ways of thinking, sensitivities, dreams, and 
aspirations. This type of intimacy can make your 
coming together much more special.

And, as if relationships weren't complicated 
enough, having them across a long distance is 
extremely challenging. Just read the following 
rules and try to keep them in mind and apply them:

1. The quality of a relationship is more likely 
to increase if both people develop the ability to 
share feelings openly with each other. Do not be 
afraid to tell your partner what you really need 
and want from him or her, he or she deserves to 
know the truth and judge whether they can give it 
to you.

2. Make the relationship a high priority. Avoid 
canceling reunions or putting off a phone call.

3. Keep in touch daily. If large phone bills are 
a concern, send e-mail, letters, cards and even 
faxes. And when you do make contact, don't just 
stick to love talk, but keep each other informed 
on the day-to-day aspects of your lives. This way 
each of you is aware of how the other is thinking,
 feeling and developing.  Late-night talks and 
thoughtful letters can convey a lot of what is 
most important in the long-term: your goals, 
values and dreams.

4. Be prepared to be flexible. Tell your partner 
of how much you think about and love him or her 
and you will score some important points. Making 
them miss you more and you’ll fill them with the 
constant urge to see you. But don't be possessive.
  Being paranoid and accusing will only grow 
doubts, insecurity and tension between you and 
none of those will help the relationship develop 

If your partner truly wants to be with you, then 
they would not want to wait forever to have you 
next to her or him. As long as you both trust 
each other, inform one another of your personal 
lives, keep in touch, your relationship can turn 
out into a happy normal relationship. 

Ultimately, a fabulous relationship is your goal -

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